{"id":677,"date":"2014-05-13T20:29:19","date_gmt":"2014-05-14T01:29:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/bwwrites.com\/?p=677"},"modified":"2014-05-21T11:06:39","modified_gmt":"2014-05-21T16:06:39","slug":"677","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bwwrites.com\/?p=677","title":{"rendered":"Flirt, Flirt On, Flirt On Flirt On!"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"Joc<\/a>So I\u2019m watching Lust and Hip Hop Atlanta the other day with my wife and a certain scene stuck out to me because I\u2019ve heard so many women use the words that were used via conversations, in real time, or online in social media post, that I decided to share my billion cents on the subject!
\nIt was the scene when Karlie Redd was in the studio with Jeremih.
\nThe scene was staged to be a sexually tense scene, which was supposed to happen exactly when Yung whatever his name is, Joc I think, (it\u2019s so many young this and that\u2019s), was coming through the door. If you saw the show, you know exactly what I\u2019m talking about. Jeremih was touching and caressing her in a sexual manner while licking his lips in an \u201cI\u2019d F the crap out of you manner\u201d!
\nHer \u201cman\u201d walks in right when it occurs, and gives Jeremih a look and then says something about the situation, Jeremih turns and asks her if \u201cshe’s cool\u201d.
\nFor one, asking a chick if she cool after her man walks in on some shit like that is a violation waiting to happen, ninja what! But here\u2019s where I have something to say about the situation.
\nIn the confessional part of the show, she states that it felt good to have him caressing her like that. Ding!
\nBut in the show she told Joc that wasn\u2019t nothing going on, although allowing a negro to caress you when thou know that you are supposed to be in a relation ship, is a bit more than nothing. Eh I guess at least she wasn\u2019t kissing him, she was just doing a little bit of harmless flirting, right. Ding Ding!
\nThen she proceeded to lambast him about his philandering ways prior to what occurred in the studio, to try to justify what she did. Maybe I\u2019m naive but, if nothing was going on and everything was so innocent, why would you bring up the instances in which your significant other was \u201ccheating\u201d on you, I thought you wasn\u2019t on nothing! Ding Ding Ding!
\nThen what really made me say, that\u2019s that bullshit is when she ran outside behind him calling him insecure about what had just occurred, as if she was being super loyal to him and he didn\u2019t have anything to worry about, ever! I might be confused but isn\u2019t that exactly what you here when you confront your woman\/man in a possible situation where you thought that they might be cheating. It\u2019s always, you\u2019re insecure, you don\u2019t have nothing to worry about and then you find out later that that mf\u2019er was cheating all along, yeah that\u2019s how it usually occurs! Ding\u2026\u2026\u2026\u2026 lets just say, four alarm fire just sounded!
\nYeah, I know what some of y\u2019all are saying, she was right, dude is insecure, he can do whatever freaky shit he did, but she can\u2019t do shit. If you\u2019re one of those people, count your fingers to 3 and raise the one that it lands on and point it at yourself for me!
\nNow that you\u2019ve done that, please explain to me how walking in on your woman, being caressed and eye fucked by another dude means that you\u2019re insecure when you call her on it, or vise versa! Y\u2019all got the game all f\u2019d up! Flirting brings about sexual tension, and sexual tension eventually brings about sex, and if you think a person is insecure because he\/she has a problem with you having sexually tense moments with the opposite sex, then you\u2019re on BS and trying to cover something up!
\nAs I stated in the beginning, I\u2019ve heard a lot of women cosign this BS as if you are insecure when you call them out on their flirting. What is flirting anyway, \u201cit\u2019s being sexually attracted to someone and letting them know that you are, but not going all the way with them\u201d! She even stated in her confessional that \u201cit felt good to have him touch her like that\u201d, her words!
\nWoman logic, man flirts with woman, he\u2019s a dirty dog trying to get a bone! Woman flirts with man, it\u2019s all innocent and he\u2019s insecure because he said something about it! Lose, lose for us!
\nThe innocence of flirting is a fallacy period! It\u2019s not innocent, people make that claim because they may not have been willing to go the extra step at the exact time.
\nLadies\/men how often do you flirt with someone that you would never in a million life times have sex with? Be serious!
\nNo one does, if you\u2019re flirting with someone, you would sleep with her\/him if the situation presented itself.
\nThat doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you would cheat on your man\/woman with that person. Some will, some won\u2019t, but if you and your significant other part ways and you run into that person again, those same sexual tensions will still be there, and this time that flirting may go further than the first time!
\nOops, that last pic was of her other industry related relationship, but don\u2019t worry Joc, you\u2019re her boo for this storyline! We see you tho Jeremih!<\/p>\n

\"Karlie<\/a><\/p>\n

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